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Silent Majority Speaks

Rescuing Democracy in the United Kingdom from our current Elected Dictatorship

Spin, not face-to-face confrontations with the voters, is the Government's chosen method of communication. Ordinary people are dangerous. Ordinary people might ask a question which throws a politician 'off message'; the Cabinet member might reveal himself or herself to be a human being like us, and not a programmed android. Worse still, he or she might tell the truth.

Ann Leslie - Daily Mail, September 16, 2004

Blair wants to leave his mark on history - looks more like a stain to me.

Peter Thorndyke, Diss, Norfolk - Daily Mail, May 23, 2005

 
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Britain has traditionally been one of the biggest net contributors to the EU because we do not get as much money back from Brussels in farm and regional subsidies as our rivals.

According to Treasury figures, between 1995-2002, Britain's average contribution taking the rebate into account, was £2.6billion, or £43.55 per head of population.

The French - the biggest recipient of farm subsidies - contributed £1billion a year or £16.08 per head of their population.

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Great teen pregnancy fiasco

After seven years and £138 million spent ignoring the role of parents in sex education, Minister admits: "We got it wrong." Why can't we just teach the word NO?

Commentary by Bel Mooney - Daily Mail, May 27, 2005

Who'd have thought the chirpy and boastful Oklahoma number I'm Just A Girl Who Can't Say No would turn out to be the anthem of a generation? When I was a young journalist in the Seventies the right-on-thing for some of my peers was to write explicit sex education manuals: no holds-barred stuff aimed at taking the so-called sexual revolution into the schools.

That was the spirit of the age. And now we have reaped what we sowed - a hyper-sexualised society where small girls are dressed like mini-Lolitas and sex sells everything. As new figures show, this country now boasts the highest teen pregnancy rate in western Europe, with an increase between 2002 and 2003 which brings it to a staggering 42,000 under-18 pregnancies a year.

Chastity, the US solution

Teenage pregnancies have fallen dramatically in the US in line with a growing abstinence movement. The number of under-18s giving birth has dropped 30% in the last ten years.

In 1995, 38% of girls between 15 and 18 were sexually active. By last year the figure had fallen to 30%. During the same period the number of boys aged 19 who had had sexual intercourse dropped from 83% to 65%. The trend coincides with a massive push from Right-wing conservatives and fundamental Christian groups to introduce sex education into schools which focuses on abstinence from sex and a pride, not shame, in chastity.

Rather than being given lessons in how to take the Pill and how to use a condom, young girls are being taught that 'viginity is cool'.

Liberal critics claim that the abstinence movement is a return to the dark ages. Proponents simply point to the figures. In the past five years, during which the biggest drops have occurred, President Bush more than doubled funding for programmes which teach that abstinence from sex until marriage is the only sure way to avoid out-of-wedlock pregnancy, sexually transmitted diseases and other health problems.

A study by the roman Catholic Church in America concluded: "The most likely reason for this trend lies not in elite influences but in grassroots public opinion. Though the nation is closely divided on many cultural issues, it is not divided over sexual abstinence for teens.

In Britain the message does not appear to have been heard. An American expert who spoke at a recent sex education meeting here was jeered by government officials when she suggested abstinence could reduce teenage pregnancies.

When, earlier this week, the Mail featured the sad spectacle of three teenage mothers in one family, it was easy to feel frustrated by their own mother, Julie Atkins, who allowed an 11-year-old daughter to have sex under her roof, then had the gall to blame schools for not giving enough sex education.

When the Children and Families Minister Beverley Hughes admits the Government has reached the limits of its ability to contain Britain's shameful teen sex statistics, and needs the help of parents, she is right. But what if parents are as hopeless as Julie Atkins?

We know that when parents speak openly with their offspring about this important issue they will be more likely to have their first sexual experience later and more likely also to use contraception. We also know that sex education in schools needs to move far beyond the biological facts into the whole area of relationships.

Yet this is where the problem lies. Government policies which emphasise 'safe' sex have failed. The teachers have the courage to be unfashionable prescriptive and advise that NO should be the word? I think we can guess the answer. To be non-judgmental is the modern mantra.

'Moral panic' is a mocking phrase much bandied about by those who should know better - yet what else should we feel when we see young lives thrown away, girls pressured into sex, children giving birth to children, whole cycles of deprivation endlessly repeated.

The social consequences are not in doubt. So what might have the power to halt this depressing downward spiral? Not mere facts, that's for sure. The Reality TV generation knows how to 'do it'. They know about condoms, even if you wouldn't think so.

But what they don't know is how to develop the self esteem and sense of personal responsibility which values love-making as something important, and the conceiving of children something infinitely precious. Who is telling them that?

Last year, the Mail's Ann Leslie reported on the extraordinary moral backlash among America's young. It comes from the very power which drives so many kids into (often unwillingly) sex; peer pressure. In a poor area of southeast Washington, Ann found rather scary girl gang members who call themselves 'Best Friends' and are tough militant virgins. They bolster each other to pour scorn on male chat-up lines, and proclaim virginity 'cool'.

She detailed the sexual abstinence programmes spreading all over the States - the 'Silver Ring Thing' and 'True Love Waits' movements among those which claim membership of more than 2.5 million teenagers. Do we care so little for our own children that we can sit back uncaring, having given them the freedom to ruin their lives? Are we so afraid of preaching morality - in other words, right and wrong - that we do nothing?

I'd like to see a cool 'Chastity rocks' movement starting here in Britain - with the lad and ladette magazines respecting instead of cheapening their readers, and parents and teachers having the courage to tell young girls to say NO. That way they might truly value themselves for the very first time.

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